Have you ever felt you are doing everything to keep that person happy and taking care of all his need still you are not enough for him /her.
And you always think there is some problem in you and you keep try to find Reason to make him/her happy.
1) You guys are not growing as a partner.
2) confused about your future.
3) slowly this is turning toxic for both of you
4) always fighting with Reason or no reason.
5) going to sleep without saying sorry.
When two people are in a relationship growing together is must because if only one person is growing and moving ahead then this kind of relationship going to face tough time because in relationship both have to grow equally if you want to Go ahead in a Life with each other and one person is left behind then you guys are not growing together.
If one of you is confused about your own future with eachother and you don't know where it's heading then you guys have to sit together and need to talk about it.
We never know how nagative we have becam in someone life until same thing happen to us same way in in relationship if you are turning way to toxic for eachother you need to think about it and relationship can not work if two people are not on same page.
In relationship after some time fighting with eachother is way to normal and after that realize who is fault and saying sorry and making up to it is way to great thing because in fight we say things which we have kept in our heart for long time..it's normal in relationship but if two people are only fighting not trying to find what is conclusion of it then there is problem in relationship which need to fix.
Fight is Way to normal in relationship but in fight if you stop caring about the person your ego is coming all the way above your relationship and you are letting your partner sleep with heavy heart than its way to clear your relationship is not as important as you say.
this kind of relationship is harmful for both people because nobody is happy and they are touchering each other in the name of relationship.this kind of relationship is toxic for both the partner.life is way to small to hurt each other by staying in relationship where no love and no respect has left.
There is one quote-
"You should know when to live a job, party or a relationship"
Very well said if you are not growing in relationship,if you are not happy,most important you are not seeing your future with that person then you should move on no need to stay in toxic relationship.life is all about living it and enjoying it not to worry about it all the time.
Sometimes over biggest blessings is saying goodbye to this kind of things which are hurting us the way only we know because this wound can not seen by anyone the person who is suffering only can understand that.
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